Adult Dating Multiple Women and Doing It Right

To all, or maybe most of us and our friends, agreeing on adult dating just one dude implies a proclivity to monogamy. So going out with another guy the next day would therefore be cheating, which is a cruel thing to do to your adult dating partner.

I don’t even know the real reason why, but my generation believed that when you really liked someone, you should like them solely and exclusively. However, this age has produced guys who date multiple women like they are filling out an elimination bracket, and I even know a few of these guys who go adult dating with a variety of women because they get easily bored with just one set of tits. The number of these kinds of guys are growing everyday at the risk of making it part of the norm.

For you guys who prefer this kind of action, it can be a minefield. So, here are a few guidelines for being an ethical he-skank.

• Make sure you give out enough information.

There’s a big difference between avoiding the conversation about exclusivity and going into a relationship knowing you never want to have it. Saying, “I want to go out with other people” over a first date meal can be dismissive, so wait for the right time when it feels natural.

• Don’t give out too much information.

Honesty and total transparency are totally different. Tell her that you’re seeing other people . Don’t tell her that you don’t want to see “One Day” because you already saw it with a gorgeous Vietnamese accountant. That’s being dishonest. You absolutely want to see “One Day” again.

• Keep away from social media.

A good rule of thumb to follow is always act as if you’re having an affair. Refrain from adding friends of women you date, and absolutely no posting of photos on Flickr. One more thing, don’t ever give away your location through FourSquare, and you might as well have posted, “Mike just became mayor of another woman’s vajayjay.”

• Keep it casual.

If you’ve found someone who is cool with your tomcatting activities, congratulations! Get all emotional and you’re going to ruin it before you even say “hug me.” Don’t tell a girl “I’ve never met anybody like you” if you would still like to meet a bunch of women and have sex with them.

• Always be protected.

This goes without saying, actually. It’s a very unsafe world for unprotected sex.